i am going to share my own experience in having a positive mindset about what i can do and what others convince me that i can do it. my field here is about drawing, both in traditional and digital artworks... i am raised in a very strict family, where my parents rule every detail of my life. especially my Dad, he is a very strict and discipline to me. very bold about what i can do, and must not do. he dislike me doing art. he used to throw away my drawings, torn em apart, with many reasons of his objection. one above everything is that he lives in a environment of poor artists life that kinda made him dislike my art, and broke my heart for ye